Homeschool: How To Get Started :: Which Method?

HS get started  

If you've spent any time at all researching homeschooling you have probably come across some strange words and heard the word method thrown around quite a bit.


For someone just coming in to the homeschooling world this can be very overwhelming.


You mean it's not enough to just say I'm going to homeschool? I have to now pick a specific way to do it?


It's not that bad, really. Once you get the vernacular down you're good to go. Bonus: you'll sound like a pro in all your conversations. That's all that matters, right? ;)


I'm going to break these methods down in the simplest form I can and then let others take over and talk to you about them.


Later on, in a separate post, I'll tell you which one I use.  I don't want to color your opinion now. I know, I know... everyone wants to be just like me, so I don't want to set the bar too high. Har har har.





Today's post will be a bit different than the last two.


Less talking, more clicking!


I am going to give you a brief overview of each method and then some great resources I've found and used for each one.


You'll want to take your time checking them each out. I do recommend you look at each method before you make your choice!


Don't feel locked in after you've picked one though; most homeschoolers seem to evolve over time. I know I have. I'll share more on that in a later post.

*This post contains some affiliate links. This doesn't change the price for you, it just means I'll receive a small percentage (to pay for school supplies) if you happen to purchase the item through that link.*


Charlotte Mason


Charlotte Mason was a late 19th century British educator who was passionate about children's education. The Charlotte Mason method is known for its short lessons, the use of living books, narration, dictation, art, music and nature study, as well as developing your child's character.




The Charlotte Mason Way Explained -- A very thorough and easy-to-read book! Fabulous resource! Highly recommended.

Charlotte Mason in a Nutshell -- a quick explanation (more thorough than my blurb above)

31 Days of Charlotte Mason -- a 31-post series exploring CM

Charlotte Mason Homeschooling Headquarters -- lots of great resources for every aspect of CM education

7 Characteristics of Charlotte Mason Education -- a simple summary

Simply Charlotte Mason -- a great website for support, guidance, and resources.

Charlotte Mason's Original Homeschooling Series -- Charlotte's  6 books in one volume

A Charlotte Mason Education: A Home Schooling How-To Manual -- How to implement CM




Most like public school. You have your subjects divided up. Most use workbooks and traditional textbooks and tests. There are several online resources for education. It's easy for newbies to want to mirror what they may have grown up with or are comfortable with. It's not a bad thing at all. A lot may start out this way and then merge into something else as they become more comfortable with homeschooling.



Traditional Methods -- post explaining this method

Understanding a Textbook Method -- a quick overview

Confessions of a Homeschooler -- a fabulous blogger that I feel is mainly traditional in method. I use a lot of her things for my kids even though this is not my main method. She has great resources and helps for anyone, even if you don't use the traditional method! Worth a look at!


We're not talking curriculum today, but here are some samplings of traditional curriculum providers. 

Abeka -- Christian based curriculum and textbooks.

Sonlight -- Christian based, in a box, curriculum

Connections Academy -- online schooling, like public school

K-12 Online -- online public school (technically homeschool because it's done at home).  I've heard mixed reviews on K-12.



Classical education is based on the trivium -- three phases of learning. Classical works, latin, and history (taught in chronological order) are some of its predominant characteristics.  There is soooo much to Classical education that I truly couldn't get it all down in just a few sentences. Check out these many resources.



The Well-Trained Mind: A Guide to Classical Education at Home (Third Edition) -- an amazing book that covers all years of schooling. A fabulous resource for any homeschooler, even if you don't use the Classical method. Highly highly recommend.

The Well-Trained Mind Blog -- An accompaniment to the book. I can't say enough kind words about Susan and Jessie, the authors of TWTM. They go out of their way to help you understand and answer any questions and offer advice and support to you.

Classical Education for the Average Homeschool Family -- Great overview of classical education. Quick and easy to understand.

10 Reasons I Chose Classical -- blog post from one mother on her reasons for her method choice. 

Classical Homeschooling -- websste dedicated to this method

Trivium Pursuit -- another website!

Teaching the Trivium: Christian Homeschooling in a Classical Style - a book to check out!

The Core: Teaching Your Child the Foundations of Classical Education -- a wonderful book!

Trivium Mastery: The Intersection of Three Roads: How to Give Your Child an Authentic Classical Home Education -- another great book.

Classical Conversations -- a Christian academic program. I've heard lots of great things about them.

Classical Conversations: An Overview -- This is a great overview of what exactly is CC. I'd read this first, then go check out their website (the one right above this one).

Classical Scholar -- a website with resources.

Homeschooling With a Classic Twist -- a blog dedicated to classical education.

Living and Learning at Home -- another blogger that uses classical education.

10 Days of Classical Education -- a 10 post series based on this method, she has lots of guest posters contributing.



Thomas Jefferson/Leadership Education


Has 7 keys of learning, which are: classics, mentors, inspire, structure, simplicity, quality, and you, not them.  This method is to help your children become leaders and independent thinkers. TJED (as it's abbreviated) is becoming increasingly popular. It also has 3 cores of learning (similar to Classical's trivium).



A Thomas Jefferson Education: Teaching a Generation of Leaders for the Twenty-First Century -- The book!  A must read! (Read this one FIRST)*

Leadership Education: The Phases of Learning (The Leadership Education Library) -- Read this one SECOND*

A Thomas Jefferson Education Home Companion -- Read this one THIRD*

*Rachel DeMille (eek!) visited this post and gave me this wonderful advice! She said taken out of order the Home Companion can be confusing. It's still a great resource, just make sure you read it in order for maximum understanding! I'm so grateful Rachel visited and shared this invaluable help!

Thomas Jefferson Education for Teens -- another book

Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling, 10th Anniversary Edition -- and yet another great book.

 A Thomas Jefferson Education --  the website with lots of great resources and helps!

TJED site freebies page!

TJED - Mothers -- a blog dedicated to tjed and mothers (duh), great resources for both aspects.

10 Days of Growing Leaders  -- a wonderful 10 post series for TJED/Leadership education.


- A TJED manifesto. Too cool for me not to post! (Click to make it bigger)


Unschooling/Interest-Led Learning


With unschooling you allow kids to discover, explore and learn what they are passionate about without it being like a traditional schooling experience. This method began with John Holt, a public school teacher that was fed up with the system and wanted more for his students and children.



How Children Fail (Classics in Child Development) -- John's first book that started it all

How Children Learn (Classics in Child Development) -- A must read!

The Unschooling Handbook : How to Use the Whole World As Your Child's Classroom -- another great resource for how it actually works.

 Sandra Dodd's Big Book of Unschooling -- a great resource, written by a homeschool mother that is an unschooler!

John Holt GWS -- John's website. Has links to articles and more.

 What is Unschooling? -- A blog post to explain it briefly.

10 Things to Keep in Mind About Unschooling -- a simple, yet lovely blog post.

Our Unschooling Journey -- a blog post sharing their unschooling story

 Unschooling: How We Learn Subject by Subject -- this is a great resource for you to get an idea of what unschooling looks like. Plus, this is a fabulous fabulous blog dedicated to unschooling! Worth a look!


Click on the picture to take you to the post on Winging It about unschooling.


Unit Study


Takes one main idea and builds a study unit around this covering all disciplines.


For instance, you want to learn about frontiersmen, you would study them with books, write a report, or give an oral report. You could learn about tracking animals, using a compass, make maps and track their journeys, go on a wilderness hike and document animals and plants you see. Then go learn about those animals and plants. Cook and bake foods that frontiersmen frequently ate, etc, etc.



What is a Unit Study? -- Very brief explanation

What is a Unit Study?  -- A bit longer explanation

How to Plan a Unit Study -- 4-part series (make sure you read all 4)

5 Easy Steps to a Unit Study

How to Create Unit Studies

How to Create a Great Unit Study

How to Fit in the Extras With Unit Studies


Now, you don't have to always make your own. There are some that are done for you already!

Unit Studies by Amanda Bennett. -- Fun unit studies! Great to use even if you aren't mainly a unit study family. From now until 4/13 there is a sale going on for many unit studies!

KONOS -- Wonderful curriculum!  Great for teaching the multiple children.

Homeschool in the Woods -- Great great unit studies based around history and time periods.

The Ultimate List of Unit Study Resources -- talks a bit about what they are and how to do them, then has an alphabetical listing of all sorts of free unit studies for you to use that she's curated from around the web.




Easiest one to explain! This is just as its name implies. You take a bit from each method you like and incorporate it the best way for you and your family.  There really aren't resources on this as you just pick your methods and combine them as you see fit. Done and done!  Ha!



 Whew! I'm exhausted. How about you?


Remember: DO NOT read these all today! Check out the quick explanations for each and then a resource for each one and then pursue the ones that peak your interest the most.


Take your time to go through them and write down things that stand out to you and any questions you may have so you can research that further. If you have questions, please post them down in the comments and I'll do my best to get you the answer! Also, let me know if any of the links gives you trouble and I'll fix them.

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Wait wait wait!!!


How do you pick? Is that what you're going to ask me?


Well... I'll break that down as quickly and as simply as possible.

STEP 1 -- Read about them (we've got that covered now)

STEP 2 -- Take notes as you read. What do you like about each? What don't you like about each? What questions do you have?

STEP 3 -- Take some time to think about it.

STEP 4 -- Research the answers to questions you have. Look for blogs and other parents that use the method(s) you're interested in.

STEP 5 -- Go with your gut. Oh, and use those goals and reasons to help guide you to what is most important to you and your children.

STEP 6 -- Keep in mind that you don't have to stick with it beyond today, next month, next year, or in several years. We change as people and so will our mindset, our values, our interests, and your children. You may like a certain method, but your child really is struggling with it. Can you tweak it? Or is there something else you know they'll get more out of? Don't be afraid to change.

STEP 7 -- Rinse and repeat as needed. Maybe eat a treat or 10.


I'll see you tomorrow!


All my best,




6 Myths Parents Tell Themselves About Homeschooling Debunked!

6 homeschool myths  



Just that one word can bring up so many emotions in so many different people.


I'm pretty sure that's safe to say about a lot of words. Take pizza, for instance.








I've heard these myths/excuses/doubts in every conversation I've had with people who either want to homeschool or think I'm nuts. 


** These are what I hear people say about themselves in regards to the thought of them ever homeschooling their own children. Not what they say to me about me. **


I'm going to debunk these myths the best way I can. 


#1 - I have no patience


I laugh my lumpy butt off at this one. Patience? They think I have patience? Quick, someone call my mom and dad and see what they have to say about that!


Just work on it, ya bum!



Seriously though, in some areas of our life we may exhibit more patience than in others.


For instance, my child may have lost their shoe for the fifth time that day. I am not going to be patient. Heck, I probably lost patience after the first time.


I may be more patient when teaching my son how to cook than teaching him how to do the dishes. I may be more patient with my daughter struggling over her addition than when she just gives up and cries when I ask her to read.


Ya dig?


Don't put it in your "cons" column; that's just ridiculous.


#2 - I am not qualified to teach.


You're not qualified? Should I call CPS? Then you must not be qualified to be a parent.


I know, I know, that's not very nice. I know this is a real concern for many parents, and mostly their nay-saying spouses.


Think about it, were you really qualified to be a parent before you became a parent?


You might have had a desire, a job, read parenting books, bought all the necessities for said baby, and (hopefully) stopped any illegal activity you may have been engaged in. When you took that baby home for the first time did you sit there and think, "I totally got this! Nothing is going to trip me up! I am parent hear me roar! I will never ever make a mistake."


If you did, come here so I can slap you. No, really.


None of us are ever 100% prepared nor qualified to be a parent. That's how it was intended, I think. My children teach me so much even when I'm the one trying to teach them.


To get religious on you, God called many people who weren't qualified (or didn't think they were). Take Moses, for instance. He didn't think he was a good speaker, he felt foolish. Yet God qualified him and sent him help (He'll send you help as well).


The scriptures and history shows us people that didn't think they were qualified, and who might not have been, but proved themselves far greater than they could have dreamed.


If you put your faith and trust in God, He will qualify you to homeschool your children. Just like He qualifies you to be the parent over your beautiful children. He wanted you to be their parent.


Now, in a technical sense, this concern shouldn't deter you either.


Not a rocket scientist? Neither are the public school teachers (that I know of).


The homeschooling curriculum world is HUGE. I mean huge!!!!!!!!

Your eyes will pop open at the multitude of curriculum choices. Your brain will fry researching all of them. There are so many varied methods and types that you will undoubtedly be able to teach your child.


Don't know what the Krebs cycle is? You will once you buy that science curriculum.


There are teacher's manuals (gasp, the public school teachers have those)!


There are guides, there are DVDs, videos, podcasts, articles, customer service, tutors, forums, kits, clubs, co-ops, and many many more tools available to you. You will love learning alongside your child. You can get a curriculum that guides you verbatim of what to say and how to explain something. There is no way on this earth you will ever come to a required course that you will not be able to teach.


Unless you, the parent, don't know how to read.


The best part? Usually your child starts school in Kindergarten. You don't need to stress about calculus and physics now. Just the basics. By the time you reach calculus and physics age you will know what to do. Honest.


#3 - It's too much work.


Well, it depends on what too much work means to you.


If you just want to sit around and watch TV all day, then yes, it'll be too much work for you.


Homeschooling is work. Is it too much work? Nah.


I love work, but I also love days that I can just sit and read a book, or watch a marathon of Murder, She Wrote. I also hate chores and cleaning. Bleh.


Homeschooling is way more fun that chores and cleaning.



How much work is it? Well, up front it may be a bit more work.  Once you get going you'll probably dedicate 1 - 2 hours each week prepping and planning your whole week.

I homeschool a 2nd grader, a K/1st grader, and  preschooler. My toddler just runs around with scissors and plays with matches while we homeschool.


Each day we do school for about 4 hours total. For all 3.  They're getting everything they need and more. Add 30 minutes on to that for some PE.


#4 - But, I couldn't do anything! I'd have no life!


Well, when you chose to have a child or ten you kind of gave up your total freedom.


I don't go out with my friends as much as they go out with each other. I may miss their monthly luncheon, or can't go shopping with them spontaneously. I don't much care though.


I see my friends whenever I want to. I go out and meet them at the park with our kids. I have girls' nights almost every week. My husband makes sure I get frequent breaks without the kids. Saturday afternoons I go strolling through my favorite antique stores, drooling in the aisles at Target, and doing anything else I may want. With or without my friends.



Safe to say, I have a life. A rich, full, meaningful life. I have time to blog, a part-time job, some time to write, some time to work on my own personal goals and dreams. All while having time to play with my husband and kids and teach them too.  With some nifty planning I can do it all.


If you want all the time in the world to yourself, I'm sorry if this seems rude, but I feel sorry for you. The things you're missing out on.


#5 - My kids would never listen to me.

I get it. My middle son is a stinker. I thought he'd never listen to me. He doesn't always obey me, but sure enough, as soon as dad says it he jumps right to it. Grrrr.


When it comes to school he loves it and begs for more. He listens to me! To ME: Mom! He obeys!


If you become their primary teacher I guarantee they'll listen to you. It may take some time for them to get used to it, especially if you're pulling them out of public school, but they will!


#6 - I can't teach.


See #2.


I personally think you're doubting yourself too much. You may be stronger in a subject than another. You may hate teaching history. You may not know how you're going to teach your child to read.


That's okay.


I promise you that you can teach. *don't hold me to this legally*


I also promise that there is a curriculum out there that will help you. There are reading programs out there that are amazing that will guide you word for word what to say. There is a history program out there for you even if you can't stand the stuff. There are so many resources out there that will take the guess work out of teaching and will instill in you confidence.



All this being said. Some people just tell me these things because they don't have any interest in homeschooling and probably don't know of a nicer way to say I'm ridiculous. That's cool.


If you really just don't want to homeschool, then don't. It's not for everyone and I am personally not judging you nor thinking I'm a better mother. I support you in your decision.


If these are your concerns that are keeping you from homeschooling, then I challenge you to give it a whirl.


Maybe this summer try it out so you can see if it's something that you can do. I'm here all summer so you can hit me up for any kind of help you may need. If I can't help you, I know some amazing people that can.


Homeschooling is a personal decision that we each have to make. Make sure you are coming at the decision with facts and not fears. With truth and not myth. With faith and not doubt.